MARRIAGE, sweet and deadly union

Every Youth out there think about Marriage at a point in their live. As an established youth, much pressure come from family members and friend to settle down and get the best out of marriage. Questions often arise as regarding when it is right for a youth to start thinking about marriage, there is no age precisely speculated for marriage thought, the earlier the better.

 

Marriage itself has two main Purpose, which are for Procreation and companionship. Marriage is very important in every Human society because it ensures legal continuity of Life. Marriage also brings two people together till death separate them. Let imagine a society where no one gets married, what will the society look like?

 

Marriage as interesting as it looks encompass the union of two individuals who are in every way ready to love and support one another. Marriage is believed not to have a U-turn.

 

 Certainly, not everyone we dated as youth or Teenagers can be perfect image for us to marry. Marriage is expected to be a union between two people who have made the other a priority and not an option. Making someone a priority means you learn to satisfy them and vice-versa.

 

 At many Marriage Talks/seminar, questions arise about who are the group of people who can choose life partners for a youth. No one is right enough to choose a partner for another regardless of his level of authority or relationship, Marriage should be a mutual and not a cohesive affair.

 

Though, Certain group of people like friends, parents and clergymen can play an advisory role. It is highly advisable that youths are given the chance to choose for theirself the person whom they are pleased with since they will eventually be the one in the marriage. After choosing the supposed right partner, certain advise can come in from parents, friends and religious leaders.

 

Partners in Marriage need a high level of tolerance to get along well with their Spouse, every relationship out there has it's own challenges which only tolerance helps mend. Ability to tolerate your spouse's friends, family members and colleagues cannot be underemphasized because it goes a long way in holding a union of two mature minds. Also, people often ask if there is a certain "right age" to get married, This question has a straight answer which is NO!. There is no right or wrong age to get married. Marriage involves maturity and maturity is not displayed by age.

 

Marriage is not to be managed, it is meant to be enjoyed, this is the more reason it is highly advisable that we get married to a partner we are attracted to. It is the wish of everyone to enjoy their matrimonial home but certain habits such as adultery deprive them of such enjoyment and happiness.

 

Marriage on its own serve much important role in the society and also on individuals. Let Imagine the number of rape cases our society will record daily if there is no institution called family through marriage